Stop dwelling on the things you can’t change!
If you hadn’t fallen down, you would never have learned how to get back on your feet.
If you hadn’t been forced to let go and move on, you’d never have learned that you have the strength to stand on your own.
If you hadn’t lost hope, you would never have found your faith.
The best often comes after the worst happens. You can either move on, or you can dwell on the things you can’t change. Either way life does move on with or without you.
So learn from the past and then get the heck out of there. You will always grow stronger from the pain if you don’t let it destroy you.